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St. Louis Divorce Lawyer For Complete Blog Postings and Archives, 5 Hot Tips for Best Divorce Results Want to know 5 Hot Tips for getting through your divorce successfully? You will eventually get through your divorce. How will your life be when you reach that point? To get the best results and not wreck your health or your spirit in the process, follow these suggestions:1. Separate from your spouse as soon as possible. Living together during an ongoing divorce is a recipe for conflict and high stress. 2. Hire a good divorce lawyer who is a good fit for you. If you have a divorce lawyer who makes you feel terrible, you will not be happy. Divorce is stressful enough. Hire a divorce lawyer with whom you feel comfortable and confident. 3. Break it down into bite-size portions. Some of the financial and other paperwork of divorce can be massive and overwhelming. Break it down into smaller pieces - schedule several one or two hour blocks of time to work on those projects. 4. Make a wish list of settlement items. You never know when an opportunity for settlement will arise. Keep a running list of the things you would like to accomplish in the settlement of the case so you will be prepared and not forget something. Make sure your children are the first thing on your list. 5. When you feel like doing something negative or spiteful (such as send a nasty text message or post something snarky on Facebook), go take a walk instead. You will not regret the fresh air and exercise. For more information, see this article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/edra-j-pollin/going-through-a-divorce-w_b_1248520.html. The 5 Best Times To Get A Divorce Want To Avoid Financial Problems After Divorce? It is possible to use a little planning to put yourself in a better financial position after divorce, by being aware of the best times - financially - to get a divorce. Divorcing when real estate is selling well, when your credit cards are paid off, when the kids are going off to college, when you have a very good credit score and before you inherit a lot of money, will help put you in the best possible financial position after divorce. For more information, read 5 Best Times To get A Divorce.7 Tips For A Civilized and Child-Centered Divorce How To Help Your Child During Your Divorce Would you like to avoid a year or two of pure hell during your divorce? Would you like to spare your children the psychological harm of seeing their parents behave like idiots? Would you prefer to put thousands of dollars into the college accounts instead of into litigation costs? It can be done, and your child deserves it. Get information on how to accomplish that in 7 Tips for A Civilized and Child-Centered Divorce. Divorced With Children - And Other Myths You Are Never Really Divorced If You Are Co-Parenting Face it, if you are co-parenting after divorce, you still have to deal with your former spouse on a regular basis. Many couples find they discuss child-related issues more after divorce than they did prior to divorce. When they were still married, often one parent would handle most of the child-related issues. So what is the main difference between parenting while married and parenting after divorce? To find out, read this article. Are You Worried That You May Be Headed For Divorce Court? Top 5 Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble Are you worried that you and your dearly beloved are headed to divorce court? If you are seeing any of the following things, don't ignore it. 1) Facebook messaging with an old lover (sneaking around); 2) Weight gain over 20% (giving up); 3) Sexy new underwear (duh); 4) Slacking on chores (don't care any more); 5) Writing down all costs (getting their ducks in a row). For more information on the Top 5 Signs Your Marriage is in Trouble, read this article. Parent's Dilemma - Fund Your Child's Divorce or Not?
Should You Play Banker for Your Divorcing Child? It is such a difficult situation. Your child is going through divorce. There may be young children involved. You want to help, to make it better. You are, after all their parent. So you offer moral support - then babysitting, running errands, cooking some meals, carpooling. You are okay with that, after all, your child has a lot on his or her plate right now. But then they ask you for money. Should you give or lend them money? If so, more than once? Should you stipulate how the money is to be used? What will other family members think if you do or do not give or lend the money? For an excellent discussion of these and other questions, read this article. Are You Worried Mr. Right Might Be Mr. Married Man? Top 10 Signs Your Date is a Married Man So you are dating a great guy who swears he is single. But after a while, you start to have doubts. Are you being paranoid or oblivious? That depends. Does he pay for everything in cash? Does he only go out with you right after work? Does his job involve a lot of travel? Has he ever had you over to his house? Does he refuse to answer certain phone calls in front of you? Actually, that could be that he is married, or that he is dodging bill collectors. For more of the Top 10 Signs Your Date is a Married Man, see this article. Singer Stevie B. Arrested During Performance for Unpaid Child Support Singer Arrested on Stage For $420,000 Unpaid Child Support Stevie B., the singer best known for his #1 Billboard hit "Because I Love You (The Postman Song)" from 1990, was recently pulled off the stage during a performance and arrested. He is accused of not paying his child support - in the amount of $420,000! How do you get away with it that long? I would probably get arrested if I littered. $420,000??? For more information, see this article. |
